I am new to anal play and this is great. First time it hurt and did not hold it in for long, but tried again with lube and patience. This was a winner and cumming was intense. Solid butt plugs can hurt when inserted, this gets around that problem, you can virtually deflate this, insert and then pump. Removal is easy, just deflate. The feeling of it pushing against your insides and then inflating more is undescribable.